The formula to success is to keep making mistakes
What is the formula for success? It is quite simple. Keep on making mistakes.
You may think that failure is the enemy of success, but it is not true. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from your mistakes. So go ahead and make as many as you can. Just try to ensure they don’t hurt anyone along the way.
J.K Rowling, the author of Harry Potter once said “You might never fail on the scale that I did. But it is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case, you fail by default.”
Your success in life as well as in work is actually built on your failures. They are the mechanism by which we learn, and they are the stepping stones that will get you to the place you want to be in the future. If you don't make mistakes (and learn by them) you will find it hard to succeed. To fail is to be human.
Achieving success is not something that happens overnight. You have to work hard at it; you have to have failed many times first, and you have to feel hungry and go through the bad times before it happens.
In Australia TPS (or Tall Poppy Syndrome) is a social phenomenon in which people of genuine merit are criticised because their achievements apparently elevate them above their peers. Sadly, in this lucky country cutting tall poppies it is almost a national sport.
It is too easy to give up on your dreams when you have failed many times. These failures might include a regrettable comment you made in the office, the day you forgot your wedding anniversary, or the black day that your business collapsed.
So what? Life goes on and you control your own destiny. No one else can do it for you.
People will criticise you along the way, and they will do their best to put you down. Some see failure as a weakness, when in fact it is strength. Ignore them and concentrate on your own dreams and not theirs.
“It is not the critic who counts; nor the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.” – Theodore Roosevelt.
And one final quote . . .
“You are the author of your own life. It's up to you to dream it, imagine it, sketch it, shape it, build it, go after it and make it happen. Then colour it in with bright, shining shades of joy and efforts that are yours and yours alone. No one else can know the dreams you dream or the strengths you have within you that will help you make those dreams come true. They are yours alone. And so is today." –Author unknown
Tim Mansfield is a 30-year global veteran in the real estate industry and Founder and CEO of Sydney-based buyers’ agents PrimePropertyBuyer. You can follow Tim on Twitter by clicking here.
